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Sun, Mar. 15th, 2009, 06:21 pm

Just felt I had to break in my new userpic with some thoughts about an old episode of Desperate Housewives. The episode deals with one of the characters 'sexual deviance'. If I recall, they hint and perhaps talk a little about how it is easier to discuss sexual with strangers than it is with loved ones.

Not having been a part of a lot of these conversations I can imagine a dialogue.

partner #1 : You know, I'd really love to spank you/tie you up/etc/etc/etc
partner #2 : (offended) You pervert/sicko/etc get out of my house...
partner #1 : What? (lying) I was kidding, calm down. Learn to take a joke.

You clearly subject yourself and your relationship to a lot of risk to bring this sort of thing up. With a stranger/etc it would seem there is less to lose. You are either accepted(great) or rejected(no biggie, not really a concern as you don't know them and don't intent to ever spend more time with them). With a spouse, long term GF/BF, things can get touchy and hurtful depending on how offended they are.

I guess its best to try this sort of thing very early on in a relationship so there is less concrete to lose?(perhaps more potential to lose)

Tue, Mar. 17th, 2009 03:05 am (UTC)

...aaah, never mind; I best say nothing. Well, ok...Brazilian... Melanie, Sabrina and Isabel.

Tue, Mar. 17th, 2009 03:36 pm (UTC)

Yes, if you are going to hire someone, I guess you can work in whatever deviances you like into the 'contract'.

Wed, Mar. 18th, 2009 12:44 am (UTC)
(Anonymous): Contract

LEGAL NOTICE: Money exchanged in legal adult personal services is for dancing and modeling only and is simply for the time expended in the delivery of lawful entertainment and companionship. Anything else that may or may not occur is a matter of personal preferences between two or more consenting adults of legal age and is not contracted for, nor is it requested to be contracted for in any manner. This is not an offer of prostitution. Fees charges are for time spent only. By contacting me (by either phone or email), you agree to these terms. With reference to Penal Code section 647(b) and CALJIC No. 16.420, the services discussed here by do not in any way include or relate to either: (1) engagement in any lewd act for money or other consideration, or (2) Solicitation, offer, or agreement to engage in any lewd act for money or other consideration.